love blooms bright
"This is the irrational season, when love blooms bright and wild. Had Mary been filled with reason, there'd have been no room for the child." Madeline L'engle
The Word was God
“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”
I am seven and a half years old. On Christmas morning, after a flurry of gifts, and cookies for breakfast, my mother and I go to 9:30 Mass. We leave behind my brother, who’s only three and doesn’t have to go to church every time, and my father, who’s not yet Catholic, and a boy named Roger, who is fourteen. He is a foster child and I am supposed to call him my brother. He terrifies me.
I wear my best dress, and the tights I hate but my mother loves, and my black shiny shoes I adore. It’s a special day, because our brand-new church is open for the very first time, and when I skip inside it seems vast and magical, candle-lit, glowing. The pattern in the carpet looks like puzzle pieces. I tap my shoes against it. The overhead lights reflect off the patent leather. I am happy to have left behind the tree and the presents and half my family, happy to be in this sacred place with my mother, alone. And I am only ever safe in Roger’s absence.
In the beginning was the Word.
I don’t always listen to the Gospel. I am only seven. I’ve made my First Communion and I am supposed to listen, but the second reading–Paul’s epistle–never makes a lick of sense to me, so I tend to drift off. I make a tent with my fingertips. Here is the church, here is the steeple. Open the doors, and see all the people.
In the beginning was the Word.
It startles me. In the beginning was the Word? The Word? In the beginning God created light from the darkness. I know my creation story. But Word?
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God.
Now I’m pushed backward against the pew, eyes wide, mouth agape.
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
Understand that my life, happy on the surface, was filled with darkness. Horrible secrets threatened my soul. I escaped into books. I read constantly. I pulled my entire self into fictional worlds in order to survive.
In the beginning was the Word.
Words were the only thing I trusted. Not words spoken out loud, but words on the page.
And the Word was with God.
I might be okay, then. I might have latched onto something true.
And the Word was God.
It was like a great wave of light pouring over me.
In the beginning there were stories, and the stories were with God, and the stories were God.
If I could count on stories, I could count on God.
God could make the darkness light.
I was not alone
I am seven and a half years old. On Christmas morning, after a flurry of gifts, and cookies for breakfast, my mother and I go to 9:30 Mass. We leave behind my brother, who’s only three and doesn’t have to go to church every time, and my father, who’s not yet Catholic, and a boy named Roger, who is fourteen. He is a foster child and I am supposed to call him my brother. He terrifies me.
I wear my best dress, and the tights I hate but my mother loves, and my black shiny shoes I adore. It’s a special day, because our brand-new church is open for the very first time, and when I skip inside it seems vast and magical, candle-lit, glowing. The pattern in the carpet looks like puzzle pieces. I tap my shoes against it. The overhead lights reflect off the patent leather. I am happy to have left behind the tree and the presents and half my family, happy to be in this sacred place with my mother, alone. And I am only ever safe in Roger’s absence.
In the beginning was the Word.
I don’t always listen to the Gospel. I am only seven. I’ve made my First Communion and I am supposed to listen, but the second reading–Paul’s epistle–never makes a lick of sense to me, so I tend to drift off. I make a tent with my fingertips. Here is the church, here is the steeple. Open the doors, and see all the people.
In the beginning was the Word.
It startles me. In the beginning was the Word? The Word? In the beginning God created light from the darkness. I know my creation story. But Word?
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God.
Now I’m pushed backward against the pew, eyes wide, mouth agape.
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
Understand that my life, happy on the surface, was filled with darkness. Horrible secrets threatened my soul. I escaped into books. I read constantly. I pulled my entire self into fictional worlds in order to survive.
In the beginning was the Word.
Words were the only thing I trusted. Not words spoken out loud, but words on the page.
And the Word was with God.
I might be okay, then. I might have latched onto something true.
And the Word was God.
It was like a great wave of light pouring over me.
In the beginning there were stories, and the stories were with God, and the stories were God.
If I could count on stories, I could count on God.
God could make the darkness light.
I was not alone
Wow, just wow. Incredibly powerful. How can something so heartbreaking also be pointing to hope, light in the darkness? Yet it does. Thank you for sharing this, Kim.
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Your story of strength and survival is inspirational.
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